The anus is filled with nerve endings and is connected to the pelvic muscles. Did you know it even pulsates rhythmically during orgasm and there are many ways to stimulate the anus erotically. Sex toys – butt plugs, anal beads and anal toys can penetrate a bit further than a finger. Anal sex is just one of many sexual positions that a couple can add to their practice. If this is something you or your partner has always wanted to try, here are a few helpful hints to keep things fun and sexy. Communicate before you get started. Take your time, relax, practice, work up to it, use a condom, lube, lube, and more lube. Breathe and communicate. Try various positions.